How problems can make your relationship even more romantic

It’s cool to see that Romance Tracker is starting to get listed in a few blogrolls as a site for “expert dating advice,” and I’m glad that people find the romantic ideas here helpful. There’s nothing like a little old-fashioned romance to add a much-needed spark to your relationship or marriage! But as for being an “expert,” I’m far from that. I consider myself a very lucky guy to be in a great relationship, but believe me, we aren’t without our challenges and troubles, just like every other couple! 🙂

In a way, though, I’m glad that we’ve had to so much diversity together, and you shouldn’t underestimate the importance of facing problems as a team, either. While making unneeded drama in your relationship is never a good thing, actually working together to overcome inevitable problems can bring you and your husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend much closer.

There’s an old saying about a broken bone healing even stronger than it was before the break . . . and the same goes for romantic relationships. If you and your significant other can face problems together as a team and work through them together, your relationship will be stronger and more stable for it. Solving problems together requires give-and-take, patience, and ingenuity, and all of those are important ingredients in building successful romantic relationships.

So don’t hope for problems in your relationship, but don’t despair when they come, either. Difficulties are unavoidable in any relationship, and if you face them with optimism that you and your partner can solve them together, you’ll set yourself up for success and solidify your romance. Remember: there are no challenges you’ll face that someone hasn’t faced before!

How about you? Are there any problems that you and your lover have faced together that made your relationship stronger in the end? Leave a comment below and share your experiences with our readers!