For a more romantic relationship, don’t keep score; lead by example!
But if you’ve recently discovered how addicting it is to be romantic with your partner, it’s easy to get upset if your lover isn’t as enthusiastic about old-fashioned romance as you are right away. You’re excited about adding a bunch of new romantic ideas to your daily lives and making your relationships more fulfilling, so why can’t they be? Sure, it’s understandable that you’d want your significant other to do as many romantic things as you’re doing, but keeping score on who’s being the most romantic in a relationships is the wrong approach.